As we
entered into the restaurant, we did what every person does when they enter into
a new environment: we looked around, took in our surroundings and our brains
started answering internal questions at a rapid pace. Who is in this restaurant? Am I dressed appropriately? What does the
décor communicate? How expensive is this place? Do I fit in here? What do I
have to do to fit in?
After
sitting, Katie and I looked at each other and through nonverbal communication
we both knew we did not fit in. The restaurant/ bar was filled with
20-30somethings on the prowl for alcohol and physical intimacy.
After
sitting at a table of our choosing, I turned to Katie and yelled over the loud
music, “I could not feel more old and married right now.”
As
humans, we are what are known as “hermeneutical creatures.” In other words, we
are always interpreting our surroundings. We can’t help it; it’s a natural part
of who we are and how God made us. We are always trying to make sense of the
world around us and ask the questions: Do
I fit in? How should I act? What do I do? Who am I?
Teenagers
are a little different from adults in this respect: they are hermeneutical
creatures “on steroids”—they over-interpret everything. They are not only
wondering Do I fit in? How should I act? They
are asking themselves questions like: What
does my shirt communicate about me? What does that look mean? Does my hair look
good?
Teenagers
do this because they are in the process of trying to figure out who they are.
This journey has vastly changed over the last 10 years. Teenage brains have
been trained to take in more information than any previous generation because
they were raised in a digital age: an age where they have had to process and
take in information at a quick pace. As teens and many 20-somethings take in
information they then process and interpret the information quicker than their
older counterparts. Therefore, teens and 20-somethings are better at, and
desire to, participate in interpreting information more than the generations of
the past.
For
instance, during lunch with a teenager a few weeks ago, she was talking to me
about some teacher as her Christians school and how she felt like they “shove
information down her throat” and expect her to just “buy-in” to what they are
saying. In other words, they were teaching her what to believe about the Bible
by making her learn information theological claims and memories Biblical texts.
Never did they stop and ask her to work to interpret the information she was supposed
to be taking in. She did not like this model to say the least.
As her
youth pastor, I asked her a question: “Do you feel like I do that?”
She just
looked at me as said, “No, you invite us to create our own options and have our
own reflections on the Bible. If you did what they do, I would just stop
coming.”
I could
not help but feel good that God had used me to create an environment that
invited teens into a place where they felt like they could wrestle with God and
develop their own options on scripture.
After I
left my lunch with this student, my conversation with this girl stayed with me,
I could not stop thinking about what she had said. I started to really wonder
if there was a drastic cultural shift happening that was far larger than I had
realized.
A month
later I was reading a book called, Unpacking
Scripture in Youth Ministry by a Lutheran Youth Ministry Writer named
Andrew Root. In the book, Root talks about this cultural shift within youth and
makes this point: “Therefore, our pursuit when it comes to young people and the
Bible is not to fill them up with information, but to invite them into the
action of interpretation” (pg. 37).
Root
believes that our role in the life of youth is to help them not “know the
Bible,” but to “encounter the God who makes Godself know through the Bible”
(pg. 37).
As I read
Root’s book, a thought occurred to me: What if adults, schools, parents, and
the church started to help people process information in this way? Instead of
talking at youth and adults, what if
we started to view learning as inviting people into a conversation where God was present?
I know
this would be more work and take more time, but as culture changes and
information becomes more available, learning will become less about
memorization and more about invitation. This means that there must be a shift
in the way that we help the emerging generations encounter God. Pastors can on
longer prompt teens and 20-somethings to memorize and recite articles of faith.
Pastors must work to create a space where people are invited to reflect and
process the information within community.
One thing
we have started to do in our high school ministry is to create what we call, “small
group conversations.” These small groups happen right after a message is given.
We then number off the teens into random groups of 5 to 7, each with a
volunteer leader and one student leader. We then invite the student leader to
lead a conversation with the help of questions. Our hope is that in during this
group, teens will process the lesson and dig into the Bible together.
The
reason we randomly number off the teens is so that they always have new options
and insights to challenge the way they think about scripture. At the same time,
through this exercise teens get to meet new people that they might not normally
try to build a relationship with.
Whether
you are a pastor, volunteer, parent, or teen; during this next week, how are
you going to invite someone to encounter God with you through reading scripture
and having a conversation?
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